Many divorces are handled before the case has to go to trial. If you find that you are going to have to go through a divorce trial, prepare before the day comes. Your attorney is likely going to prepare the legal side of the case, so you will be able to focus more on your emotions and how to handle yourself in court.
Mostly, the divorce trial will revolve around the judge getting all the necessary information to make decisions about things like property division and child custody. The more prepared you feel, the more likely you will be able to remain calm during the trial.
Prepare for difficult questions
Some questions the court asks might be difficult for you to hear and respond to. You must remember to remain calm, even when it is difficult. Try taking a deep breath before you reply. Your attorney should be able to help you figure out if there could be any questions that will make you emotional. Sometimes, the emotions might come as a total shock, but still do your best to remain in control of your emotions.
There is also a chance that the attorneys will get aggressive in court. While this is understandable, some individuals aren’t prepared for this to happen. Each attorney is trying to get the court to see their side of the matter, so they are really being more emphatic than aggressive, even through it sounds just the opposite.
Know the facts
You can only present facts in court, so you need to ensure that you have these in order. You can review the discovery documents and facts so that you are familiar with them. If you are claiming that any part of the discovery isn’t accurate, you need to have proof of your claims when you go through the trial.
The court will look at every aspect of the divorce, including property division, child custody and possibly support payments. Sometimes, dealing with the financial matters are the most difficult for the court. When it comes to child custody, the judge will only consider what’s best for the child. This has its own challenges, so be prepared to show evidence of anything you have that would show your side of the custody battle.
There is a chance that the judge will allow agreements between you and your ex to stand while they only determine what happens with contentious matters. Being able to come to as many agreements as possible during the mediation process might be beneficial.
