Jump to Navigation

Work through divorce negotiations with a plan

Some couples who make the decision to divorce do so without any hard feelings toward each other. In these cases, the adults might choose to come to the terms of the divorce jointly instead of having to turn to the court to make those decisions. Even though you have a good indication that the divorce will be amicable, it is still beneficial to ensure that you have an attorney to work with your during the process.

There are a lot of facets to a divorce so the assistance of a lawyer might be beneficial. Not only can this help you to resolve the important matters, it can also make it easier to get the paperwork handled.

Prepare for negotiations

If you are going to try to work things out together, it is best to get ready for negotiations. Even if you get along with your ex, it is a good idea to think about what you are willing to fight for and what you want to let go. Having your priorities in order can ensure that you are focused on the things that are important to you.

Another aspect to preparing for the negotiations is that you need to be prepared for the emotional difficulty that you might face. Coming to agreements about the divorce terms can be stressful and might wear you out. Being prepared for this can help you to deal with it more effectively.

Think about your responses

Your responses to the things your ex says or that the lawyers say can have a significant impact on what you have when the divorce is finalized. Make sure that you think about what you say so that you don't agree to something that isn't going to benefit you. Even when you are negotiating, you have the right to put things on hold for a little bit to look at the options and consult with your attorney.

Read all forms and documents

Once you come to agreements about the divorce-related matters, the information will be put in written form. Make sure you review each document to ensure that it says the same things that you agreed to during the negotiations. If there is anything that you don't understand or that you didn't agree to, question it before you sign the document.

It is usually beneficial to get the terms of the divorce handled quickly so that your legal marriage dissolution isn't on hold while you wait for things to go through the court system. Of course, there are some cases that do require court intervention in Michigan.

No Comments

Leave a comment
Comment Information
Lorrie J. Zahodnic

"I will hold you up until you can stand on your own two feet."

Lorrie J. Zahodnic, P.C. has provided skilled and compassionate legal guidance to Michiganders in family law matters for over 20 years.

Learn More About Lorrie
Have A Question? Ask Lorrie

Bold labels are required.

Contact Information
disclaimer.

The use of the Internet or this form for communication with the firm or any individual member of the firm does not establish an attorney-client relationship. Confidential or time-sensitive information should not be sent through this form.

close
Subscribe To This Blog’s Feed
Review Us
FindLaw Network