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How to navigate co-parenting conflicts

For divorced parents in Michigan, navigating co-parenting conflicts is not always easy. You may hold real animosity towards your ex or you might have disagreement on fundamental decisions regarding your child, such as those involving academic or medical needs. In either case, knowing how to properly manage conflict is crucial, which is why Psychology Today recommends the following tips.

Keep Rules Consistent

When it comes to parenting rules, in order for them to be effective they must remain consistent across the board. That means that you and your ex must come to an agreement regarding rules related to bedtimes, diet, friends, chores, and school pursuits. Additionally, these rules must be maintained in both households. Not only will this make co-parenting easier, it will also offer your child a secure routine.

Don’t Speak Poorly of Your Ex

While it may be tempting to unload on child regarding past and current transgressions, you should never speak poorly of your former spouse. Consider that many kids will take these words personally (as they often see themselves as an extension of both parents). Trash talk will also make your child feel as though he or she must choose sides, which can be extremely stressful.

Update When Necessary

Of course, even the best parenting plan may need to be updated from time to time. For instance, as your child gets older he or she will want to spend more time with friends, which would mean that visitation schedules would need to be updated. You may also need to make alterations based on extracurricular activities or summer jobs, so be sure to keep an open mind.

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